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Journals for January, 2004 can be found in the messages section at the Cookpics Yahoo group.  Information to join on the homepage of this site.
 
Sunday, February 1, 2004........... Alexandra is getting ready for her demo team competition, so she had to go to demo class again at Atlantic Coast this morning.  I brought Janice to work first for 10, then got a bread order for the sub shop, and brought the squirt to ACTA for her class.  After I got my work done, I picked up Lex, brought her home for a super duper quickie change, and brought her to catechism class; then picked her up and brought her back home after.  The afternoon consisted of lots of reading for me, and Alexandra spent the bulk of the afternoon outside playing in the snow.  Once we picked up Janice and came back home, we cooked chicken wings and homefries and watched TV a while, Janice gave Alexandra a bath, did dishes and laundry while I ashamedly sat on my fat ass and did nothing except exercise my eyeballs, and we wound up watching a taped episode we had of "Boston Public" from last Friday, before getting ready for "Survivor All Stars", while we patiently waited for the skank-fest Superbowl to get over with, where Janet Jackson's breast was revealed after Justin Timberlake tore off just enough clothing to reveal it.  Like that wasn't planned.  Once Survivor did come on, we were in bed already and watching it there, where it was after midnight.  Tina wound up getting the boot, and she wasn't on either Cindy's or my pick lists to get the boot, so we're at a stalemate for the time being......... And that's about it for Sunday.
 
Monday, February 2, 2004.......... This morning was a very easy one.  We all got up on time this morning, something that doesn't happen all the time admittedly, and I got my work done for the sub shop very quickly and got extra things done.  At noon I came home and shared it with my wife, who was working the evening shift tonight, and we watched "The View" and pretty much caught the aftermath of the Superbowl stuff that went on last night.  Of course the most talk is about Janet Jackson's halftime show/booby prize, with Justin Timberlake.  And the streaker that appeared on the football field.  And the numerous raunchy commercials that turned up during the broadcast.  If you want to read how bad the vibe was about the "entertainment" aspect of this year's Superbowl, take a look at this article and see for yourself......... The afternoon went equally smooth.  I had a fair amount of things to do for PreLam, but nothing that I couldn't handle.  I took care of this while I had Janice and Alexandra in the van with me, and dropped them off at ACTA for the afternoon class for Lex.  Apparently she kicked some serious butt in sparring again this afternoon, showing no mercy at all to her opponents, most of the time male ones.  I really look forward to the weekend and seeing how she does.  I brought Janice to work, and we came home and Alexandra frolicked in the snow outside for a bit, before we left for the evening class of taekwondo, my first class back since I hurt my back last week.  It was a pretty full class, perhaps because a lot of the people in our academy are getting ready to compete in the tournament.  I sparred with a couple of guys tonight, and did pretty good with me trying out a new defensive technique that I'm perfecting.  The class was quite good, with lots of good exercise and a pretty fun time, really.  I met up with Sara there, too, and she came back here to the house with me.  I showed Alexandra how to use the stove for the first time, expressing how important it is that she can not use the stove unless it's under the supervision of one of us.  She made her own Mr. Noodles, a fairly simple enough dish, but it was a thrill for her to be doing it herself.  I made creamed peas on toast for me, and wound up eating the whole friggin' thing.  That's a whole can of cream of chicken soup mixed with some milk, a whole can of peas and six slices of toast!  I'm wondering if my stomach might be growing a garden overnight after that.  Sara claimed to have a bone to pick (or break) with me about the pictures I recently put up at the Cookpics group, where the bulk of them were of me kicking her arse all over the livingroom floor here.  We had a friendly argument about how the past events had happened, and she pledged to whoop my butt again tonight and have Janice take plenty more pictures to back up her claims.  Well, we did have it out again, and again, I kicked her soundly beaten ass, and have the pictures again to prove that, which I'll have to put up at Cookpics one of these days.  Hey, when the pressure's on, no woman's gonna get the best of me!  We watched RAW while we had our own event happening here in the livingroom, and called it a night just past midnight, which brings me to right now, nearly 1am.  And I'm outta here to get some much-needed sleep.
 
Tuesday, February 3, 2004......... It was pretty nice out on this Tuesday.  The temperatures rose well above zero, enough to melt a lot of snow; although there's plenty more to go.  Makes for an easy time with work, though.  Hey, reading that back, kind of sounds like a rap doesn't it?  Well anyway, it was a pretty easy time working for the sub shop today, and pretty normal for PreLam, and I actually did a lot of cleaning up at the shop to get some extra time in.  Janice worked today during the day, I picked Alexandra up from school and dropped her off at taekwondo, and eventually we all wound up home.  But not before I went out shopping a little bit for some stuff for Alexandra's lunches.  And at the 99 cents or less store, I found a whole bunch of chocolate bars from the States, like Milky Way and Inside Out Peanut Butter Cups, which I kind of over indulged in.  Got a whole bunch.  The ladies went to taekwondo, with me staying behind this time because my foot's not quite ready for sparring--or maybe it is, but I didn't want to take chances--and I stayed back so I could do some reading on my favorite web sites and update my own site a little bit.  The ladies came back with the usual twonie Tuesday specials from Kentucky Fried Chicken, and by the end of the night, I for one felt like a camel after drinking so much friggin' water from the sodium or whatever in the chicken.  I can't wait to read what's in that chicken when I start reading my book, "Fast Food Nation", which is loaded with little known facts about how meals are prepared in the fast food industry.  Tonight was "24" night and "American Idol", both shows which were actually kind of lacklustre to be quite honest, but I'm sure that's not going to stay that way with both of those shows.  Sara went home right after, and I got on the PC right after and started my journal here.  And hey, I found this link that talks about what Canadians think of Dubya down south.  Apparently polls show that we're unanimous in our belief that he's a complete idiot, but that maybe a lot of Canadians are guilty of painting Americans with one large stroke of the Bush brush, which I think is wrong.  The propaganda machine runs 24/7 down there, and the American people are constantly bombarded with stories on how patriotic their governors are, only to find out as election time approaches that there's an awful lot that's been swept under the carpet......... That's pretty much it for today.
 
Wednesday, February 4, 2004........... Today was a good day for snow to melt, where it rained for much of it.  It was a pretty easygoing workday for both businesses on my end, I'll dispense with the details.  This morning, Janice went to Maritime Orthopedic to get her feet looked at so she could get special insoles/shoes made for her to help her with her support.  As it turns out, it's going to cost some $350 to get this done.  As it also turns out, Blue Cross covers 80% of it, so we're pretty much on easy street with it.  We're both thinking this is going to make a big difference in Janice's health, where in the soles of everyone's feet are pressure points that affect the entire human body.  I'm hoping that it will postively help Janice's digestive problems that she's had for several years now, among other things.  She didn't have to work today so she could take care of this appointment.  When we went to pick up Alexandra at school and I dropped them off at ACTA, I got my work done in pretty good time, and picked them back up and we came home to bide time until the evening class where the three of us were going.  Sara did not accompany us tonight as she works pretty much most every Wednesday.  She'll be accompanying us to the tournament on the weekend, though, where both Janice and Alexandra are going to compete.  I'll be videotaping and taking pictures this time out, and maybe I'll participate in the next tournament.  For anyone reading this, if you're interested in checking this tournament out and rooting on my wife and little girl as they compete on behalf of our taekwondo school and for themselves, it will be taking place at Atlantic Baptist University on the Gorge Road here in the city on Saturday, February 7.  Admission to see the full day's events is $5.  The kids will be competing earlier, in the morning, and the adults afterward.  This will be the first competition for both of them, and I have high hopes for Alexandra in both sparring and forms and Janice especially in forms.  The class we attended tonight was a good one, where the instruction was concentrated on learning forms for those who had to (i.e.  ME).  I feel pretty good about my taegeuk #4 right now.  Not good enough for competition, of course, but hopefully I'll hone it well enough to pass my next test, for a blue stripe, come the end of this month.  If anyone reading this should attend this tournament, I think you'll be shocked at how good Alexandra really is.  She attends seven to nine classes a week and is extremely dedicated to her craft, and I think she has 'champion' written all over her........ After a meal of chicken breast and rice with seasoned green beans prepared by my lovely wife, we put Alexandra to bed and settled in for a ho-hum episode of "Enterprise" followed by a so-so showing of "American Idol", in which a lot of people got cut.  My interest in that show is moderate right now, and kind of dropping.  I don't have a whole lot of patience to sit through a bunch of wannabes butchering songs they should know in their sleep, and feeling they're deserving of being superstars........ I came across a very interesting point of view from Patrick Stewart at this link, where I found his opinions on space travel echoing mine.  Except about the Mars rovers, because spending over a billion freakin' dollars on a couple of high tech Tonka trucks exploring a glorified desert instead of putting it toward people who truly and desperately need it here on our own planet is just a bit dismaying to me....... That's pretty well all there is to say till tomorrow.
 
Thursday, February 5, 2004............. As the night winds down here at our humble abode on Belmont Street, and Sara and Janice are in the kitchen as I type this drying dishes from the supper that I'd made tonight (macaroni casserole), I'm getting ready to shut things down to prepare for Friday, the day before the big tournament for our taekwondo school.  The four of us went there again tonight, where we participated in a class that was focused on technique for the most part, and I got to solidify my form a little bit.  It's going to be a while before I get it to where I want it, but hopefully, I'll have it to that point in time for testing.  The workday was, once again, very normal.  But one thing I've noticed this week is that every day I've been going to Fairhaven Funeral Home for catering deliveries.  Big ones, too.  It was payday today, so I got a few necessities at the grocery store for us, and then did the usual afternoon things for work, picked up Janice and Alexandra and came back home till class started.  It's been a pretty normal and quiet day.  I guess it's been so quiet, that the high point was getting the plastic storage towers from Canadian Tire that I'd gotten rainchecks for a few weeks ago.  That's getting desperate, eh?......... Well, that's about it.
 
Friday, February 6, 2004............ The entries here on the My Life page are going to keep being short until things spice up around here a little, I think.  Today was a pretty drab day with nothing unusual or notable to talk about, but, I'll go through it anyway.  Janice worked the daytime today, and I did too, of course.  Alexandra went to school and then her taekwondo class in tha afternoon.  When we all got together toward the end of the afternoon, it was just about time for Alexandra to go to her last rehearsal with her Demo Team for ACTA, so they could compete in the tournament tomorrow.  Janice and me stuck around and watched, and it looks like the kids have it together to put on a pretty neat show.  Hopefully worthy of winning something - I think they will.  I packed up the P.A. system that's to be used at the venue at the school building and brought it back home, so I can just bring it there in the early morning and set it up right away.  I hooked it up and tested it to make sure I knew what was what on the control board, endangering the shingles on our roof in the process.  We had veggie subs today, in keeping with our meatless Fridays honoring God.  We got them at BJ's, where we had Irene grill the vegetables in Italian oil and toast the bun with garlic spread.  It tastes remarkably like a steak sub, but without any steak, and leaves you not feeling bloated at all.  Something else that I did was go to the 99 Cents Or Less store and buy a ton of chocolate bars.  They get a lot of their bars from the States, where I always bring back a pile of them when we go there.  So something that they have is the Inside Out Peanut Butter Cups, where the peanut butter is actually the cup itself, and the chocolate is on the inside.  Man, that's a definite threat to my weight maintenance, I'll tell you right now.  Those things are so good, that if I buy too many of them, I'll eat them like popcorn at the movie theatre, just keep chowing down before I can realize how much is gone........ I guess I'll close up here for today, since we all have to get a lot of sleep for tomorrow, with the tournament happening and everything.  A full update is on the way.  Could be an interesting day tomorrow with a snowstorm forecast and everything.
 
Saturday, February 7, 2004............ Tournament day has now come and gone, and brought with it quite the learning experience.  We all got up bright and early to get the sound equipment to Atlantic Baptist University there and set up, before things got underway at 11am.  I found time before things started to head out for a bit and pick up Sara, who wanted to see the tournament perhaps to get an idea of what she'd be participating in sometime in the near future, and to go to the Farmer's Market and get my weekly quota of goodies.  The gym at ABU is actually very nice and perfect for the setting of a tournament like this.  It wasn't overcrowded or underwhelming, it was just right for everything.  Lots and lots of volunteers from our club took tickets, kept score, refereed, and generally catered to our out-of-town guests to help make the event a good one with little or no hitches.  Actually, looking back, I don't think there were any gaffes at all, no major ones anyway.  But there is certainly lots to talk about.  I was in charge of music to be played during the demo teams' competition, and for keeping the microphone working for the boss (Master Lessard), as well as making some video footage of as much as I could, and taking pictures with the digital and film cameras.  I definitely had my hands full, but it was fun and satisfying especially when I saw a few digital stills and watched the video I took.  A few people asked me for video footage, so that's actually what I'm doing right now, taping copies of it for those people while I recall stuff that happened for the journal page here........ Alexandra did well at this tournament, her very first.  First was the demo team competition, which actually turned out to be nearly non-existent, and in fact was in the sense that our own school's two demo teams competed against each other for the prize.  Four other demo teams were expected to be there but didn't show up, likely because of the bad weather, where it snowed quite a bit overnight.  Alexandra's demo team beat the other older one, where Lexy's team actually performed, I think, more difficult tasks and carried them through, where the other one had some limited troubles.  It was quite entertaining to watch both teams do their thing.  Later, Alexandra participated in forms competition, and despite a very solid effort and what I thought was a superior one compared to a couple of kids who place, she did not place herself.  It was a hard lesson for her to learn, as she bawled about it for ten minutes.  I did stress to her not to worry about whether or not she wins anything, just to try her best, and the rest will take care of itself.  She did come around eventually, despite not winning, and she will try again in future tournaments.  I thought she did extremely well and told her so!  In sparring, it was a bit of a different story.  She had two matches with two different kids, and won her first one, but lost the second, after getting hurt midway through the match.  But the trooper that she is, she did finish the match out, knowing she was going to lose, because she didn't want to be a quitter.  She hurt enough to be in tears, but her pride was intact, even though she didn't win that match.  It was a learning experience, like I said.  She knows some of the things she did wrong in sparring (I really don't think she did hardly anything wrong at all in forms), and took that knowledge away with her, along with a second place trophy for her efforts.  I was beyond proud!  Then it was Janice's turn.  She pariticipated in forms competition and sparring.  In forms, she was solid and as good as she probably could have been, and did place third behind two others who were at the top of their game and tournament veterans.  In sparring, Janice fought in a very close match, close enough to a draw as you could get, and lost but took third place in that as well.  She walked away with two trophies and a lot of tournament experience, and bonded with a few of the girls that were in the competition with her.  I was, of course, proud as any husband could be!  Sara was with us the whole time, giving valuable and appreciated support to the ladies while they fought for their trophies.  She's having stomach problems as of late, which I strongly am urging her to have checked out by a competent doctor (one that right now she doesn't have).  It sounds a lot to me like acid reflux or ulcers, where she describes a lot of the symptoms that Janice or me have had in the past, but is entirely treatable under doctor's care.  Even curable; but can be very, very serious if unattended to.  Sara was asked to do some scorekeeping for the tournament, which I know she was thrilled about even though we didn't really discuss it.  I see a bright future for Sara in TKD tournaments in the future, because she's progressing even faster than I thought she would.  The floor got put together towards the end for the black belt sparring competition, which turned out to be more thrilling than I would have thought.  I got pretty emotionally involved watching the representatives from our school fight against other schools for honors, and I was amazed at how talented a lot of our students are.  One match pitted a young man by the name of Jessy against another named Marc, who used to be a student at our club until just recently when he defected to another, and so it was a hot match as we witnessed Jessy outduel Marc in a battle that could have gone either way.  The crowd in the stands watching, and other schools, were as loud as you can imagine cheering on the fighters.  I was proud to see Jessy defend the honor of ACTA by beating 'the defector'!  That's not where the excitment ended, though.  One of our instructors, Mr. Thorely, sparred in competition against a guy from another outfit, and lost a close one in a match that was interesting, but a tough act to follow after the Jessy vs Marc epic battle beforehand.  A gentleman named Francois fought in sparring on behalf of ACTA as well, and came out a winner.  Perhaps the most involving fights of the day, though, were with the young girls and national champions from our club, Christine and Jennilee McIsaac, and another girl named Ashley, all three of them major winners at last year's National Taekwondo Championships in British Columbia.  There was a team from Halifax at our tournament, which apparently doesn't have any qualms about playing dirty.  A very loud and boisterous crowd got behind both participants in the matches, though mostly behind ours, as we all witnessed low and other illegal blows being thrown by one girl in particular on the Halifax team, most of which were uncalled by judges.  One event specifically that left us all up in arms happened when in the midst of a match between Jennilee and the girl in question, she grabbed Jenn's throat and choked her, which screwed up Jennilee's breathing for the rest of the day.  This same girl sparred with Ashley and constantly threw low blows and blows to the hips, also illegal, enough to bruise her on both sides.  I witnessed punches to the neck to Ashley from this girl too, apparently out of frustration, or maybe she just wanted to cheat more.  This is just the tip of the iceberg, apparently, with how dirty this team from Halifax is, as we heard stories from other people about their sportsmanship, or lack thereof, from past tournaments.  Anyway, in the end, it was a good day out seeing all of this.  I taped as much of the black belt sparring as I could for copies at the club, and think maybe it might even come in useful if those who watch it can get some tips on how to fight some of the others from other schools.  We packed up and left when it was all over, dropped Sara off at home, and came home to watch "Ice Age" which just happened to be on TV.  After Alexandra went to bed, and while Janice snoozed on the couch, I got on the PC and answered some e-mail, then woke up Janice once I started playing the tape back that I'd recorded from the tournament.  After we got done watching that, we watched "Jackass:  The Movie" on The Movie Network, and laughed our heads off at some of the crazy and insane things a lot of those guys did just to get a laugh.  Shortly after that, we headed to bed.
 
Sunday, February 8, 2004........... Today was a day of winding down after the whirlwind that was the tournament yesterday, so it was a bit welcome that it involved not a whole lot of doing anything.  I did have to put in my hour or so at the sub shop this morning, but that's it.  Unfortunately, Janice had to work yet again today during the afternoon for Superstore.  From this point on she's going to book every second Sunday off.  I think we're going to have to consider attending Holy Family Catholic Church, the second of two parishes in the St. Bernard's church community, on the Sundays that Janice works, where they have an evening mass every Sunday, which seems to be the only way we're going to be able to go to church every week.  There was no catechism for Alexandra today because her teacher was sick.  While Alexandra kept herself busy drawing or playing outside, I edited and reproduced copies of the videotape that I made from the tournament yesterday.  Six copies in all, so that a few people who asked for them can have them, and there will be copies for others to borrow from the club and watch at home.  That consumed most of my day, but it wasn't exactly strenuous, sitting on my ass and watching the same one hour tape over for six times.  I picked up Janice, and we came home for spaghetti courtesy of me, watched a bit of home video stuff, and put Alexandra to bed.  Alexandra was quite sassy to her mother today, though, something which I took strong objection to.  I gave her hell about the attitude and warned her I wasn't going to be having any of it.  One thing I can say about Alexandra, is when I speak, she listens, because she knows I'll carry out any threats that I make, where Janice is sometimes a bit more soft and won't.  I'll tell Lexy that she'll lose her TV privileges for a week, or lose her allowance or no treats for X amount of days, and she knows I'll enforce it, so she's quite frightened of losing something when I get angry at her over something.  She went to bed with tears in her eyes, a tough lesson, but one that I'm afraid she has to learn every so often, which is not very, because bottom line is she's an excellent kid.  Anyway, after that not much happened, and that brings me to right now, where I'll sign off until tomorrow.
 
Monday, February 9, 2004......... Aahhhh, let me tell you, nothing says satisfaction more sometimes than threatening to carry out annihilation via a wrestling match and doing it!  As was the case just minutes ago as I type this when once again I handed Sara's ass to her on a platter.  Thought I'd open this journal on that positive note.  Back to the beginning though....it was a really busy day for work.  This morning I had the two hospitals, three stores, train station, plus three catering deliveries at various points in town.  After the lunchbreak, I had two more catering deliveries, with which I had to pick up equipment from later, plus a giant load of stuff going out for PreLam.  There was so much that it packed the van to the fullest, so that nothing would fit beyond me and one passenger.  Needless to say it was a crazy workday.  I got done around 5:30, and Janice went to work at four, so I had Alexandra with me, and we came home after I was done work and gobbled down something small and quick and I headed out to taekwondo evening class (Lexy sat this one out).  Today we gave the club the six copies of the video that I'd made, and Mr. Thorley claimed one of them right away, and Tina got hers.  She offered in return to give me a private session of lessons for taekwondo.  I'm not very likely to take that, where number one--I'm pretty shy about one on one stuff with women, and two, I don't feel like I'm owed anything.  Knowing that someone got something from me that they really wanted is completely gratifying enough.  Anyway, class was pretty good, and since I'd watched the tape of the tournament this past weekend probably a dozen times, it lit a fire under me to get into fighting shape for my next testing.  Next tournament, though, I don't know when that is.  Probably a couple of months.  There's one put on by Chung Won in a few weeks, but our school won't be participating, where that school never supported our tournament, and ACTA supported Chung Won lots in the past.  So I stand by my instructor, Master Lessard, as does all of his students.   Sara joined class slightly late, anyway, and she, myself and Alexandra left to come back to the house together.  I started cooking supper, and got a call from my wife that she was getting off early, so I went and picked her up and we came back to eat our supper.  Alexandra went to bed, we watched a pretty entertaining episode of RAW, I kicked Sara's ass, and now Janice and me are pretty much ready to retire.
 
Tuesday, February 10, 2004........... Wowee, it was a loaded day for work, I tell you.  I had a ton of stuff to deliver for the sub shop, but PreLam was light this time, so I'm glad for that.  But this morning, there were six catering deliveries to take care of, on top of the three stores and two hospitals, plus coffee and soup warming equipment to pick up afterwards.  I had no shortage of things to do, to be sure.  But the weather outside was quite nice, with lots of sunshine and temperatures above zero, melting some of the snow that we have stockpiled from January's weather.  Janice didn't work today, so she made this the day to cook our belated holiday turkey dinner.  We savour it much more during a time like this when it's not so busy.  Not to mention, we got the turkey from Carla and Dana, my bosses, for Christmas, so we just left it in the freezer at the shop until we were ready to bring it home and cook it.  Janice took over completely for this, as she always does when it comes to roasted turkey.  It turned out fabulously, of course, and now we have lots of birdmeat to feed ourselves for the next few days.  When I'd gotten home from work, I went right downstairs in the basement and attempted to record a couple of demos with my drums for a pair of songs in my head that I have words and music for.  I say 'attempted' for a reason, because the videocamera that I was recording with ran out of power midway through.  Doesn't really matter, I wasn't happy with what I'd done anyway, so I'll have to try again sometime over the next couple of days or so.  But I do have the drive to get it done.  I don't know what it'll lead to, though, especially after the following story, which I'd found out at the hospital; that being news about my pal Pete Howell.  Apparently, he'd entered the HubCap Comedy Festival this past weekend, as the news had been relayed to me from his sister Barb at the Moncton Hospital where she works, and he won.  Not sure what exactly he won or to what extent, but she says he left the place in stitches.  That doesn't surprise me at all.  Pete is such a naturally funny guy, that in retrospect, I don't know why I didn't really see comedian in his career future before.  And I don't mean funny like "oh, I have this friend who is funny".  I mean Pete has a gift for making humour out of the worst situations.  Barb told me that he culled on some moments from his past and recounted them with punchlines to an appreciative crowd, which wound up winning him the big prize (again, sketchy on what that is).  One thing I know that is happening for Pete, is the potential for a career in entertainment as a comedian, as a top Canadian comic was present, Barb told me, and vowed to Pete that he would help him get an agent and, more or less, take him under his wing.  To those who don't know about the HubCap Comedy Festival, it's probably the biggest of its kind in eastern Canada, so this is no small feat.  Pete told his family, two days in advance, about his performance at the Capitol Theatre downtown, but not his friends.  My guess being that he didn't want to be on the spot, so to speak, and get all nerved out.  Fair enough, but I want to be there next time!  Other friends and myself who've known Pete over the years have been getting entertained by him for free for as long as we've known him, so now maybe he can make something serious come of it.  He certainly deserves it, and I'm pulling for him.......... Sara, Janice and myself took part in TKD class tonight, as Lexy sat it out and chose to draw instead since she'd gone to the afternoon kids' class.  It was a body-pad night, meaning all participants get dressed up in protective body gear so we can beat the holy hell out of each other without causing injury.  It was a fairly small (eight adults) but satisfying class, with drills on both punching and kicking.  Before class, I spoke to Master Lessard (Chris) and his longtime girlfriend Tina about the videotape that I'd made of the tournament this past weekend, and they both expressed their gratitude and utmost satisfaction over what was recorded.  He in fact invited me to record any or all the tournaments I want, as he believes it would be helpful to him and fellow students, and of course I will do that, where possible.  And I'll go out of my way to be sure that it is.  It's fun for me, really.  Tina was so appreciative she offered me a private lesson to get me ready for my next test for blue stripe belt........... We came home after class, and we had our turkey dinner while Sara endured this Godforsaken Fear Factor-ish kind of meal thing of her own, in keeping with her current diet regimen.  With her stomach problems, I don't know that eating things that she doesn't like is a great idea, but I'm sure she'll clue into that in no time.  After we put Alexandra to bed, we took in "American Idol", where I decided that my new favorite to win the whole thing is some girl named Fantasia.  This woman belts out music as effortlessly as Fat Albert goes through hot dogs.  She's most certainly the one to beat in my view.  "24" was an improvement from last week, but I still maintain that it's not quite up to snuff at this stage.  The "HOLY SHIT!!" endings aren't as jaw dropping in the last couple of episodes as we'd become accustomed to.  I'm sure this won't be the case as the weeks go by, though........ After that, it's time for the news and "The Daily Show" with Jon Stewart, followed by some serious snoozin'.
 
Wednesday, February 11, 2004............ I'm actually posting this journal a bit early, around eight in the evening, just to get ahead of the game a bit tonight.  This morning was far easier to deal with than yesterday morning was.  Although I did have to go for a checkup at the dentist.  After x-rays and poking around the gums, the jury came in that I have a fractured tooth, a chipped one, a temporary filling needing replacement, and a cavity, all spread around my mouth, which means I have to go back twice.  I knew about the temporary filling needing replacing and the chipped tooth, but didn't think there'd be anything else.  By the end of the month, though, my mouth should be all fixed up for another year or two.  I remember the last time I had dental work done, I got the biggest laugh out of my mouth being frozen.  I came home after I was done at the dentist's office, and thought I'd rinse my mouth out with mouthwash to get that crappy new-filling taste out of my mouth.  As I walked in the door, Rocky the cat was sitting on the couch to greet me, to which I greeted him back.  "Heeyyyyyy, Bocky!"  Bocky, with a "B", because my mouth was still frozen and my lips had about as much mobility as the presidents on Mount Rushmore.  Anyway, I amused myself quite a bit about that, and then went to the bathroom to wash my mouth out with Listerine.  After some half-assed swishing around, I went to spit it out, only to wind up decorating my goatee beard with a curious blend of filling remnants, spit and mouthwash, again because my mouth was frozen solid.  By the time I'd done this I was laughing hysterically at myself and continued replaying it back in my head the rest of the day.  Did you ever recall something in your head that you find hilarious, then burst out laughing, and knowing that if you told anyone about it, they just wouldn't get it like you did?  So, onwards---I finished off my morning, doing a couple of catering jobs, and as Janice was working the daytime I came home and frigged around on the internet for a bit browsing my favorite sites.  I picked up Alexandra and did the Dumont Hospital delivery, then went to PreLam to find a nice big stack of stuff needing delivering around town.  Brought Lex to TKD class, did all the deliveries, picked up the wife and kid and then came home, where we all got changed and got ready to go out for our very early Valentine's Day dinner.  We do this all the time now, beating the Valentine's Day rush, so that we're not met with packed-to-the-gills restaurants on the day-of.  We went to Eastside Mario's, a restaurant Janice had been touting for me to go to for over a year.  I had a gift certificate for $25 for the place that I got from Carla for Christmas to put toward our final bill.  Our meal came to $32 roundabouts, and I must say, I was quite disappointed with just about everything about the experience.  The waitresses seemed like they didn't want to be there.  The food was in small portions.  The service was quite slow.  I wouldn't recommend it to anyone, really.  It wasn't terrible, just a disappointment.  Even Janice said the place had drastically changed from when she was there before.  Janice had a vegetarian calzone and I had a New Yorker one.  They weren't what I'd call satisfying to the appetite.  Mine came with a small amount of fries scattered on the plate (now come on!  A small amount of fries?  Have you seen the price of potatoes lately?  They're giving them away!), and Janice's came with a scant salad.  Alexandra got a kid's pizza and her favorite drink, a Shirley Temple.  She was satisfied, at least.  I don't anticipate going back there anytime in the near future.  Boomerang's stomps this place right into the ground.  Boston Pizza is even better.  After there, we scooted over to Wal Mart, where Sara was working but whom we didn't see but heard over the store P.A., and then we took off to the other Wal Mart in Dieppe where we had upwards of 75 pictures developed waiting for us, which I'll be posting at Cookpics pretty soon.  These pictures are a long time in coming, where there were several of Melissa still with her long hair that she...sob!...doesn't have anymore.  There are also pictures of Alexandra's Halloween costume from this past October which you'll also see, where she dressed as a nurse........ Last week I'd thrown my name in for a contest to see Nickelback in concert at the Coliseum.  They pick a name at random by e-mail or text message and everyday one person wins a pair of tickets to see the show and get a CD, plus be eligible for the 'star treatment package', where you get front row with three friends as well as dinner for four downtown before the show and maybe a backstage meet&greet, I'm not sure.  The chances of getting this are better than your average lottery, maybe one in 20 or so.  Well, they drew my name today, so now I have this pair of tickets and a CD, and the chance of getting this 'star treatment'.  I already had decided when I entered this contest to bring Sara and her sister, both massive fans of Nickelback, with me and Janice should I win this thing.  Which isn't out of the question.  They told me at the radio station when I picked this stuff up that there are 3,700 names to choose from at random, and the dozen to twenty or so that win the dailies are the only ones that have the chance at the big one.  Now that's kinda freaky that I got this far.  I'm not a fan of Nickelback really, but Sara is in a really big way, BIG time, so I hope that I would win this for her......... With tonight's "American Idol" about to come on, I'm gonna close up shop here after I've posted the top TV shows from last week at Showtime Showdown.  Back tomorrow.
 
Thursday, February 12, 2004........... A pretty regular day at work happened today with a normal string of deliveries, including a few for catering, so I'll skip the details on that.  Janice took Alexandra to TKD class in the afternoon, and spent time with a woman named Nancy, whom she's gotten to know quite well at the club.  Nancy is a very personable, modest lady, and gets along very well with my wife.  Of course, not a lot of people don't get along with my wife, making me think that anyone who does actually has the problem themselves.  While they were at ACTA, I slyly went to McArthur's Flower Shop and bought a dozen long stemmed roses in a nice arrangement with a vase, and had them scheduled to be delivered to Janice at work tomorrow.  I've done this a few times, and though I promised her I wouldn't do anything extravagant this year for the sake of keeping the strings on the wallet tightened, Valentine's Day only comes once a year and I can't really help the urge.  I'm sure when she gets the roses tomorrow she won't be regretting it!  After going to the flower shop, I went back to pick her and Lexy up so I could bring Janice to work.  Come to find out Janice sold the Nickelback concert tickets I'd won on the radio, AND the CD, for ..... $25.  She told me that and I could feel my head spin a little bit.  Two $45 tickets and a $20 CD.  Apparently, whoever it was that bought them has a kid who really wanted to go to the concert but didn't have tickets, so his mom bought them from Janice.  But, um, they were MY tickets!  I had no idea Janice was getting rid of them without telling me first.  And for ten bucks each, I don't think so.  Now, I don't know this person she sold them to from a can of paint.  Now they can be re-sold for a lot more, especially where this show is nearly sold out, or so I hear.  That's what pisses me off the most.  Plus I don't want to look like some bozo if I win the grand prize on Monday and they ask me about the tickets I'd already won.  Nonetheless, what's done is done.  I hung my head about it for a couple of hours.  Lexy and me both took part in the evening TKD class, where we met up with Sara.  The class tonight had over 20 people in it, a large class by a weekday's standards with no testings in the very near future.  We came home afterward and ate, Sara bringing burritos or something more palatable than last time, and Alexandra and me had hot turkey sandwiches.  Look, for all the talk about people being so sick and tired of turkey after they have a big roast, I say quit crying fowl! (Sorry)   I think I might like hot turkey sandwiches more than the turkey meal itself, not to slag Janice or anybody else's turkey suppers.  But I really dig those hot turkey sandwiches and don't mind gobbling them all week (sorry again).  I picked up Janice later on, and we sort of diverted to a grocery store so I could satisfy my hankering for oatmeal cookies and marshmallows to go with my hot chocolate that I have here at home.  The best thing in the world, man, is to have Dad's chocolate chip oatmeal cookies dipped into a marshmallow-brothed Tim Horton's hot chocolate, the powdered stuff that you can buy at Tim's.  K, maybe not the best thing in the world, but it is while you're having it.  "Smackdown" was on TV, so we got back and joined Sara who was patiently waiting for us, we jabbered for a while, and Sara got a lift home.  Then Janice and me settled in to watch the recorded episode of "Survivor" we'd taped tonight.  I hedged my bets on Rob Cesternino getting the boot, figuring his whininess will get the best of him if his tribe had to vote.  But it was Jenna Morasca who bailed this time, rather than get voted out, because of her mother being ill.  That was just fishy to me.  She had said on the show that she knew her mother went from bad to worse healthwise (suffering from cancer), which means she had to have gotten information from somewhere, though Jeff Probst will deny it till he's blue in the face.  But, Jenna was my second pick to get voted off.  I thought Rob was the most likely on his tribe, and Jenna the most likely on hers, and then Jerri had a target on her on that one.  I can't remember those funky tribe names.  So I get two points, and the score in the contest between Cindy and me is 2-0 for me!  My guess is Amber will win the whole thing, after seeing her snuggle up to Boston Rob last night.  If they form some kind of alliance, and it came down to the two of them, I guaran-damn-tee you Rob will get kicked off before she does, and she has a better game plan.  Anyway, that talk is for the Survivor Wars page, ain't it? ......... That's it for today.
 
Friday, February 13, 2004.......... I enlisted my wife to help me out with my work this morning, with which I was somewhat overwhelmed with.  I had the usual stuff to do, the two hospitals, the three stores and the train station, and between 11 and 11:30 I had massive orders going to Harrison Trimble High School and Arnold H. McLeod School.  These orders were gargantuan, so Janice's help was very appreciated by me.  Something worthy of note here, is how shocked Janice and me were with so many of the kids that we were among at HTHS, at how amazingly rude they were.  We're carrying these huge trays full of food through the halls, and apparently it's between periods or something; and no one makes any effort to make our task easier whatsoever.  There was one young gentleman who did open doors for me, but I continuously bumped into kids in the hallway.  Janice and me were both puzzled at the behaviour we experienced.  Janice went to noon hour TKD class, with her pal Nancy, and I picked her up and we went and got Alexandra from school, and after a short spin on the job I brought them both right back to ACTA for Alexandra's afternoon class.  I got my stuff done in a reasonable amount of time.  I picked them up again, then brought Janice to work, and Lexy and me went back to McArthur's Flower Shop to get a single long stemmed yellow rose for Janice from her daughter, with a little card to go with it.  Janice received her delivered bouquet of roses in a vase at work as planned, and called to say thank you and "you sneaky rat!"  I made omelettes for Alexandra and myself for supper, no meat today after all for our weekly sacrifice to God.  We got an unexpected visit from Tobie from taekwondo here at the house, where she thought she'd say hi on her way to the bus stop.  I gave her a ride home.  Then I went to Superstore to get a few things and pick up Janice.  Before we did, though, I told Alexandra to run into the house as soon as we parked the van in the driveway and get the little card and the yellow rose out of the fridge so she could present it to her mom.  We parked in the driveway and I never saw our kid move so friggin' fast.  She presented the rose to Janice, who expressed her  heartfelt gratitude at all the attention bestowed upon her by her husband and daughter.  Then it was my turn.  As it happened to be, they had something for Dad as well.  Alexandra presented me with a card with a Cadbury Mint chocolate bar in it (one of my faves), and a plush monkey with boxing gloves on him.  Pretty cute little thing.  I have this other plush monkey that I got last Valentine's Day, who we called Mindy.  Now we have a Mork to go with her.  I've got this affinity for monkeys, eh?  I get a kick out of them.  So these two will join the big gorilla that I got from Janice many years ago (whose name is Big Wilfred.....also an MSN alter-ego of mine).  It was a good little Valentine's Day for all of us, though a day early, as we usually do it to avoid the whole rush that happens on the actual day-of.  Now tomorrow is Alexandra's turn, where we'd bought her a little Peppy-le-Pew plush doll holding a little box of chocolates, a Willie Wonka tin of treats, and a small Barbie box of candy.  Alexandra thinks that all the stuff comes from a little naked guy flying around with a bow and arrow called "Cupid", pretty  cute.  But, after this Easter, we're blowing the whistle on all of the fictitious holiday characters and setting her straight, rather than let her heart get broken at school from some cruel kids.  That could be a daunting task.  But, right now, we're still going to have some fun with it.  Right now, Janice is watching "Talk To Her" on The Movie Network, for the second time, after seeing it once on DVD.  I saw it twice on DVD, and watched it again tonight earlier.  This is a great show for anyone curious about watching a movie with subtitles, seeing it done really well......... Farmer's Market tomorrow, plus a little party thingy going on at Main Street Market for kids hosted by Janice, and maybe skating after all that for her.  Till then........
 
Saturday, February 14, 2004......... This morning I got up earlier than I'd have liked to, being my one day off, when I usually catch up on my sleep.  Especially during this last week where I didn't get to bed as early every night as I should have.  But this morning, Alexandra was pretty excited to get her Pepe le Pew plush doll with chocolates and her other candy packages from 'Cupid' for Valentine's Day.  After a bit, I had to drive her to TKD Demo class and Janice to work.  After that, I went to the Farmer's Market and got a ton of stuff.  It's hard not to buy things there, I tell you.  There's just too much to tempt the tastebuds.  After that, I picked up Alexandra and brought her to Superstore where Janice was doing a kids' cooking class, where they made heart shaped pancakes and other culinary goodies.  While they did that, I came home and surfed the web, reading in detail the press conference with White House press secretary Scott McClellan as he tried to pass off a bunch of illegible records as proof that George W. served his time with the National Guard as he claimed to have.  It's really quite amusing to read it and see the same answers being given by McClellan over and over again as he tries to dodge the bullets, very unsuccessfully I might add.  Anyway, I picked up my wife and kid and we came home and killed time until supper, which was in the form of hot turkey sandwiches, which apparently didn't quite agree with me tonight.  I think it was the gravy, I don't know, but I feel like the turkey that I ate is coming back to life right inside my gut.  Lots of weird and wonderful noises coming out of the basement and the attic tonight, if you know what I'm saying.  We got in touch with the lovely and talented Sara, and the four of us went to Centennial Park to bring Lexy to skate on the pond, using her skates for the first time.  She did incredibly well.  Her ankles didn't cave in, like mine always do with skates on, and she fell lots and lots of times, but she just laughed it off all the time and got better and better, falling less and less toward the end of our stay there.  Sara wiped out a few times being near Alexandra, providing comic relief for the evening.  Another word about Sara, this woman is such a great friend of ours; she knows we like those big tins of popcorn, one of which she bought for us for Christmas.  So when Wal Mart got more of them in, where she works, she got two more for us for a Valentine's Day gift.  Now that's just great!  I should also note here that the girl's losing weight and size in an effort to get more healthy.  It's certainly evident from a visible standpoint, but most importantly, I think it'll do something for her on a confidence level, something she could use a boost with the most.  We got done at Centennial Park, where I didn't know if I was going to puke or what with this pissed-off turkey resurrection inside my stomach or something, and brought Sara back so she could do her thing, and we did our thing back here at home, where I pretty well just kicked back, sipped chamomile tea to sooth my stomach, and Janice did housework tonight so she wouldn't have to do anything at all tomorrow.  I'm feeling guilty the last little while about not doing enough around here, so maybe tomorrow I'll catch up a bit.  There's nothing planned around here, unless we bring Alexandra back out skating, so perhaps I'll clean a bit before the WWE pay per view starts in the evening.  We'll make an attempt to attend church tomorrow morning too....... With that, the evening has come to a close.
 
Sunday, February 15, 2004.......... Got up this morning and headed straight to McBuns Bakery to pick up the bread order for the sub shop, brought it there, and packed an order for the hospital and delivered that, and then picked up my wife and daughter to go to church at St. Bernard's for 11 o'clock mass.  I find mass a lot more rewarding than I ever did when I used to go, I guess because I pay attention to what's going on now.  Father McKee said mass as well as the sermon, which was a great one, as always when he speaks.  He's a very personable man and easy to relate to, as he doesn't talk down to the parishoners like I've found many priests to have done over the years.  Janice and me went to Tim Hortons after that while Alexandra did her catechism class.  Then we picked her up and came home.  It wound up being far too cold to bring her skating today.  I went over to my buddy Pete's for the afternoon while Janice stayed home and napped, while Alexandra did whatever she wants.  I got a rundown on what happened with the whole Hub Cap Comedy Festival thing with Pete, and found out that he won the "Open Mike" contest for amateurs.  Pete's an entertaining talker, so as he told his story on how the events went down, I listened with a pretty clear visual on how everything went.  Within the next couple of months things may get serious for him, especially when the Yuk Yuk Comedians Tour comes around, which could be a break for Pete where he has a guy high up in the comedy circuit that can get him a gig in it.  I don't doubt that he'd go over great, so I hope that he gets the chance.  Another thing that we touched on was getting a band thing going again.  What we ultimately came down to was, me singing, him playing guitar, his nephew playing bass and another guy playing drums.  I've always wanted to try the frontman thing, so we'll see what happens if it pans out.  I'm certainly not counting on anything.  How this came about was, Pete's nephew tried to get a band started, and members kept falling away because of their own spazzed out reasons.  Pete and myself have been there and done that over and over again.  So Pete is going to propose trying this idea I just mentioned and see how it flies.  We'd be doing mostly our own stuff, especially where I'd told Pete that I have a lot of songs of my own on the back burner, and he does too, and so do the other two guys.  And this will NOT be a "poor me" act either where we sing songs about how much life sucks or where our girlfriends have all gone, or why can't life be better.  That's been overdone, to death......... In the evening, Sara joined us for the WWE pay per view, which was pretty good but nothing overly special, and Steven was MIA for his own reasons.  A good night with lots of laughs was had by all of us.  Right after the pay per view, the power went out, either because of the bitter cold or maybe because of the catastrophic stench that was oozing out of our butts all night as a result of our stellar diets, namely Janice and me.  It came back on after about 15 minutes, though.  I did find an article at Ain't It Cool News that I found insightful, about "The Passion Of the Christ" movie that's coming out on Ash Wednesday next week.  It contains a letter from a rabbi who actually defends the movie and what it has to say, as well as its right to say it.  I couldn't agree more.  There are a lot of people of high Jewish 'authority' that are trying to tell Christians how things were, and ultimately that's upsetting much of the Jewish community because of the inflammatory, condescending tone of their implications.  I look forward to seeing this movie the day it opens, or as soon after as possible........... That's it till tomorrow.
 
Monday, February 16, 2004.......... Man oh man, the cold snap is back.  Not quite as severe as it was a few weeks ago, but minus 26 isn't what you'd call balmy, especially with the wind factored in.  I went into work a half hour late because of things not quite going so smoothly upon wakeup as I would normally expect, but things settled in eventually.  When I went to work, I discovered quite the lineup of things to do.  I had the stores and hospitals, along with a list of five or six catering deliveries to do throughout the day, some with hot soup accompanied by large soup warmers, which makes for a bit of a struggle for transport.  I'm no fan of transporting hot soup and coffee.  For coffee, I just can't stand the smell of the stuff.  It's one of those things I've come to detest just from the smell, but also from its lack of nutritional value which the health community just seems to be blind to.  Soup is just plain messy to get moved around.  Janice didn't have to work until the evening today, though, so that took a limited amount of strain off of my day.  There was enough lifting and stuff today though to make my lower back tweak a little bit, which worries me slightly, but I'll just have to watch out I guess.  That's what tends to happen when large soup warmers are handled within my schedule.  Anyway, I got the day done, and Alexandra got picked up from school and brought to ACTA for the afternoon class.  The afternoon saw a small amount of things to be done for PreLam, just three pick-ups, but they were all at different corners of the city, which made it more time consuming than it appears up front.  I did pick up Alexandra and Janice, who went with her to class, after work was done, and we went home briefly before driving Janice to work.  Once home, I made Alexandra her Kraft Dinner, and after that we headed to ACTA for the evening class.  There were only seven adults and a few kids tonight, and Mr. Thorely was the instructor.  This guy is truly Mr. Friendly unless you piss him off, and I didn't do that - nor have I ever or hopefully ever will - but he showed us all some things to do to people who might try to physically cross us.  I was the guinea pig tonight, with Mr. T asking me to grab his shirt while she showed everyone how to twist and manipulate someone's body via yours truly to thwart an attacker.  Didn't hurt though, but it was a bit scary!  Funny more than anything.  Anyway, after class, Alexandra and me brought Sara home, who had to do some studying, and we came home and played Trouble and farted around until it was time to go and pick up Janice at work handy to 9:00.  We came back and put Lexy to bed, and then got ready to watch RAW at ten.  Tonight, Mel Gibson is being interviewed by Diane Sawyer about his movie, "The Passion of the Christ", the first major interview about it that he's given.  We'll be recording it and watching it tomorrow.  After a decent showing of RAW, it's time for bed, and tomorrow it's Fun At the Dentist's Day.
 
Tuesday, February 17, 2004............ If I had a chance to replay this day in real life, I think I'd hit the "skip" button.  Holy frig what a day.  I got up at the usual time, although this time I was headed to the dentist's office instead of work, to get some work done downstairs in the choppers.  My appointment was for 8:30am.  I got in slightly early so the doctor could freeze my gums before he went in there with the excavating tools to do the work.  This brought back a bit of a frightful memory for me about six or seven years ago, when the same thing was done before I had fillings.  Back then, he froze my mouth and sent me into the waiting room while the freezing took full effect, obviously so that the nerves would go snugabye while the hardware went poking and prodding and drilling.  I really didn't feel like it was a big deal, but my subconcious, or something, took over and went bonkers on me.  My head started spinning, I could feel the blood drain out of my face, and I thought I was going to be sick.  My breath got shallow, and I finally decided I needed to go outside and get some air.  After doing some deep breathing, and balking at my initial instinct to leave and come back another day, I went back in and the stuff got done and everything was okay.  But I never forgot that frightful, jittery feeling that came over me that morning.  So, this morning, when he did the same thing, I tried to get into the right mindset so that this wouldn't happen again.  After a bunch of shots to my lower left gums, I started turning into Mr. Droopy Face and went into the waiting room, and picked up a copy of Canadian Consumer Reports, which featured an article on the best TV's to buy.  Since we're sort of in the market for one, perhaps at the end of the year, I read with interest and appropriate distraction what my choices might be when the time came.  It turned out to be the same choice that we pretty much own now, Toshiba's FST brand, which delivers the most quality and bang for the buck, basically the same reason that we'd bought the Toshiba that we own now, which is nearly 14 years old and still in great condition.  Anyway, like I pointed out, this provided a good enough diversion until I was due to go in and get drilled.  The usual things went on.  You know the...well...drill, they put that miniature trampoline thingy on your mouth, the nurse gets the noisy suction thing ready and the dentist goes through the motions with the drill, starting with a small bit and progressing to the big one.  The one that grinds and rattles your whole head to the point where everything is almost blurry.  My jaw was frozen good enough, though there was a bit of pain when he went really deep into one tooth that he was working on.  But I didn't want another freakin' needle so I just endured it.  But just as I thought that he was done with drills, he went back in and drilled some more.  And I'd noticed that he was calling for cotton from the nurse quite a lot.  I was oblivious to what was going on, just laying there with my mouth wide open with the trampoline thingy draped over it.  Once in a while water would spray in to the open tooth with the "SSCCCKKKSSSSHHH" from the suction tube cleaning it out, getting on my glasses.  You know what else I hate, besides everything I just typed, is the stink that the dastardly drill makes when it's sawing down your teeth.  Yeeeesh.  I'm just laying there, not able to breathe through my mouth for obvious reasons, and smelling the stench of my own teeth floating up into the air.  Anyway, after more drilling, more spraying, more suction, more cotton, TWO HOURS LATER, I was finally done.  He took the trampoline thingy off my mouth, and I'd noticed it was spattered with dark stuff.  Turns out it was blood.  He had taken a lot of time during this operation to stop bleeding that had happened as a result of finding an infection between the teeth he was operating on, which was very hard to see, because I have kind of a mutant tooth inside my mouth that you can only find if you look right inside, so the gum in between the three teeth is nearly impossible to see.  Unless it's infected and it starts letting blood out.  This lengthened the procedure and kind of made a simpler task a bit more complicated.  As it was, one of the teeth that I was getting worked on was actually a fractured tooth that was being re-built, so he had to be pretty meticulous about the bite that it had when he was done with it.  I'm talking about a big-ass filling here.  If you ever see me, ask me to see it and you'll see what I mean.  Anyway, he told me that there were some minor problems that made this procedure even longer than a route canal (but more painful, take it from me---because I've had those too), and that if there were any problems to let him know.  In the meantime, I've got to make another appointment and get the other side done next week, two minor things compared to what was done today.  I left the office to find that it was after 10:30am, and I'd told Carla that I didn't think I'd have been much later than 9, so I had to forego my brief visit at the house to clean my mouth out, and head straight to work.  So Mr. Droopy Face gets to BJ's peaking wid nud muck uvva voich becud uvva froden mout, so I limited my speech to the bare and essential essentials.  I came to realize that my mouth hurt like old hell, more than I'd expected.  I just attributed that to a long operation where my mouth imitated a manhole for two hours with a workman going to town with drills looking for gold or something, and waited things out to see if they'd improve on their own.  There were as many catering deliveries this morning as there were yesterday morning.  I had to get the two hospitals, three stores and two catering orders delivered, while Carla helped and took care of two other catering deliveries herself, understanding the plight I'd faced with my dental dilemma.  I'd come to realize as I went with those deliveries that I did that biting down and making contact with my uppers and lowers was not working as far as my lowers were concerned.  It felt like nerves in my teeth were raw and exposed.  It made me slack jawed the whole morning, while I waited to see if it would subside while my mouth thawed out from the novacaine.  The pain got worse.  I completed my deliveries and went home briefly, to take extra strength Motrin, which didn't help in the least.  As I lay on the couch, with Janice beside me, suddenly I felt severe, sharp spasms shoot through my lower left molars.  I mean severe enough to be vocal about it.  Janice wondered what the hell was going on and had the look of panic on her face.  I guess that mirrored how I looked at the time.  The more the freezing subsided, the more my mouth hurt, and it got to the point where all I could do was loudly groan about the intense pain that I was feeling in my jaw and in my mouth.  I drove Janice to work for one o'clock, leaving her to worry and wonder what was going to happen with me, and I went to PreLam to get my list of things to do for the day.  At one point I pulled over because the incredibly intense pain was interfering with my judgment on the road.  I got my things from PreLam and went to pick up Alexandra at school, the pain still getting worse, and from there I went straight back to the dentist's office.  I told the secretary "look, this is absolutely killing me and I need help", briefly explained what was going on, and I got to see the doctor about five minutes later.  Concerned, he hastily sat me down and went right into my mouth to see what had gone wrong.  He had me bite this plastic thing to find out where exactly the pain was originating from.  "Sorry to have to do this, Mike, but we've got to find what we're looking for", he said, and tapped each tooth with a pick.  But nothing, oddly enough, resulted from it.  Finally, I wiggled my jaw around and we were able to find the culprit that may have been causing the problems.  He took a drill into my mouth, again, and began filing down a couple of fillings that he'd done in the morning.  I bit down, and pretty much instantly, the pain had dissipated.  I could make contact with my uppers and lowers again.  What a relief!!!  I couldn't take that kind of pain a whole lot longer.  I was even prepared to just tell him to yank out the offending tooth, it hurt so much.  He said it can be one of two things:  that he may have filled a tooth that was already dead that didn't show up on x-ray, and there may be an infection, or one of the teeth was over-filled.  Having a tooth over-filled can throw off the whole alignment of the jaw and cause spasms, making it feel like a genuine big-time toothache.  Sounded pretty accurate.  He gave me Tylenol 3's and a prescription for antibiotics, which he gave me the choice to take or not as a precaution (I won't), and pretty much ordered me to take the Tylenol to get me through the next day or two where the whole area where the tooth was over-filled is inflamed.  He told me to go back tomorrow and tell him one way or the other how my tooth is progressing, and to "stay on top of it".  He also pleaded with me not to go to Emergency at the hospital about it because they likely won't have a clue as to what to do, where he knows what it is if it isn't an over-filling.  I told him going to the hospital for my teeth was never an option, and meant it!  This was a simple judgment thing.  I've been going to this same dentist since I was a grade schooler, and this is the only time I've had any type of problem.  And he was eager to correct it and seemed genuinely concerned.  So....I got through the afternoon.  I brought Lexy to TKD class for the afternoon, did my BJ's and PreLam work, then picked up Lex again and then came home so I could take the Advil that my dentist gave me for the time being.  He didn't want me taking the Tylenol 3's while I was driving, so instructed me to take them when I wasn't.  I picked up Janice, who was relieved to hear that I'd finally gotten on top of the problem, and while my teeth still hurt and ache right now as I type this, it feels mostly like just the typical just-got-fillings-done kind of aching more than anything else.  Janice, Sara and Alexandra went to the evening TKD class while I took a Tylenol 3 and stayed home for a short snooze, trying to sleep off some of the pain.  When Janice came back and woke me up, I felt somewhat better, and the medication did indeed help.  After putting Alexandra to bed, we watched "American Idol", where just about everyone who sang sucked save for three singers (or two, if you ask me), and then we settled in for this week's episode of "24".  And man oh friggin' man, the "holy shit!!!" factor is back in full effect on that program.  Janice and me were giddy at the end of the show with excitement at the turn of events that we never, ever saw coming from the beginning, and we're relieved to see that this show has its edge back after a brief lull from the last two episodes.  We still didn't get to see Mel Gibson's interview yet, though, and that's put on hold until tomorrow.......Wow, what an entry this was.  I'm sure tomorrow will hopefully prove less trying.
 
Wednesday, February 18, 2004............. I was relieved to wake up this morning having had a pretty good night's sleep, with thanks to the addition of Tylenol 3 to my arsenal of ammo to dental pain defense.  I don't reckon that I'll be having much more of a problem now and that I'm on the rebound from yesterday.  I got up this morning and made it to work in plenty of time, to no avail, because two people were missing from the roster which sent us back by a couple of hours, leaving me to peddle around the shop looking for things to do.  There were three catering deliveries for noon hour, so with my regular stops in addition to these, it actually made for a pretty tight morning.  In the afternoon, with Janice working and Alexandra going to TKD class, I managed to get things done in a reasonable time, and my kid and me came back home and waited for Janice to be done work.  When I picked her up at nearly six, I'd brought her TKD uniform, and she changed into it in the van while we went straight to ACTA after I picked her up.  Alexandra sat out tonight's class.  I concentrated on getting my form honed enough for my testing next week, then joined the regular class midway through, and we left, Sara-less (she was working tonight) for home, where I was about to discover some gastrointestinal unrest about me.  Pretty much all evening I've been feeling rather lousy, and I've pinpointed the problem.  It's pop.  I'm drinking way too much of the damned stuff.  When Lent begins next Wednesday, I'm cutting it, and chocolate and sweets and chips and all that junk, out altogether.  Seeing as I'm a practicing Catholic now.  We watched an episode of "Star Trek:  Enterprise" tonight, a so-so outing, and watched "American Idol", and we were both shocked to find out the roid-rager himself, the football guy, got through to the next round over the the redheaded stunner that was on last night.  We couldn't believe it.  And the Americans make fun of Canadians for bad taste.  This brings me to right now, where I'm going to sign this off and look ahead to payday.
 
Thursday, February 19, 2004........... This will be a day that's going to go down in local weather history as the "Blizzard of '04".  How it started out was, rather calmly, a bit snowy in the morning--with not really any problematic accumulation on the ground just yet and some light snow flying in the air.  The forecast was saying that we were going to get hit with somewhere between twenty and thirty centimetres, with winds gusting up to 100 km/h eventually by the afternoon.  This is pretty frightening stuff, if it's true.  As I went about my rounds for work, it got progressively worse.  Snow piled up on the ground very quickly, and the wind picked up just as fast.  The wind actually made it far worse than it would have been without it.  Lots of snow fell, for sure, but the snow made driving absolutely treacherous.  I decided to take to the highway to head out to Lyon's Store out on Lutes Mountain, figuring that the highways are going to be in better shape than the city roads.  They were in just okay shape.  And when I got to the mountain itself, white-outs began happening where I couldn't see much past the hood of the van.  The wind blew the snow so much that it actually made things somewhat claustrophobic.  I managed to get to Lyon's, though, and then doubled back to take care of one other store, then out to the French Hospital.  Conditions were deteriorating very rapidly at this point.  The wind had just about reached its peak and the snow was falling very, very heavily, and pretty much anyone who was on the road for no other reason than life or death would be categorically branded insane, yours truly included.  I decided to forego my lunchbreak and stay at the sub shop until the afternoon order for the French hospital was done.  In the meantime, I had three deliveries, amazingly enough, to take care of in the morning.  At the beginning of my shift, actually, I was amazed to find out that a continental breakfast catering job was still on, with cancellations coming in all over the place.  This was at one of the University of Moncton buildings with a bunch of tie guys with laptops.  I was to make another order at lunch hour for this same group for soup and sandwiches, and still another order close to the Moncton Airport for another business meeting.  At noon hour, the storm was close to, or at, its peak, and these orders had not been cancelled, to my sheer amazement.  Getting to these places made for some very, very nervous driving.  I had to go fast enough so that I wouldn't slow down and get stuck, but slow enough so that I don't get sucked into a snowdrift with a white-out, which came dangerously close to happening a few times.  At one point, at an exit while I was making a hospital delivery, I was on a ramp to get to the road to take me there, and I was in the situation where I couldn't see anything past the hood.  I only barely saw an SUV spinning its wheels appear right in front of me just in time before I smacked into him.  Then, when he was gone, I got stuck in that same place.  After a lot of forward/reverse acceleration, I finally got loose, all the while taking the chance that no one would smash into me where we couldn't see each other, and got into the hospital parking lot.  One lady in the elevator with me who works there asked how it was outside.  I told her it was crazy for anyone to be driving in these conditions, and I think I actually talked her into not driving out home, to which she would have had to take the highway to get to, which would have been a potentially disastrous mistake.  I finally headed home, very slowly, and parked on the street momentarily while I shoveled out the driveway entrance.  No easy task.  So much snow had fallen that a six foot high snowbank had been created from the plow that had recently gone by.  I'm left with a plastic lightweight shovel that's great for shoveling powdered snow, but not good for anything much heavier.  With the wind blowing hard and me shoveling, in a race to get it cleared before it blew right back in again, I found myself at one time losing my breath from a harsh breeze blowing snow into my mouth with cold air and causing me to skip several gasps.  It lasted about five seconds, but to have your air taken away from you without warning for that short a time makes it seem ten times longer.  Anyway, I finally managed to get the driveway navigable enough to shove the van into it (GERONIMOOOO!!  pttooooofff......van inside the driveway), and I sought refuge in our house where I spent the rest of the day with my wife and daughter while Mother Nature had her way with the outdoors.  When all was said and done, weatherwise, something like 62 centimeters of snow had fallen here in Moncton, and in Halifax somewhere over 90 centimeters.  Leading me to wonder how my ex/now-friend Michelle is making out, seeing as she lives there.  E-mail was out of the question, where we had no cable TV or internet from 1:30 in the afternoon on to the next morning.  We still had power, though.  We wound up doing whatever came to us.  Playing Trouble with Alexandra, we all watched "Finding Nemo" again, played around, talked a lot--- it was a different kind of day with no TV or internet.  Actually we were on the verge of going nuts.  Soon enough, though, it was time for bed for all of us, and we're left to ponder what kind of mess we'll be waking up to tomorrow.
 
Friday, February 20, 2004........... Shoveling is such a fun thing to do!!  For insane people!!  But you know, I'm all right, because I still friggin' hate it.  I got up this morning to find the end of the driveway piled in with snow.  I got up plenty early enough to deal with it though, and Janice and me actually went out to do double duty on clearing it.  For the second time in as many storms, we ran into the super good fortune of having a neighbour across from us who was enjoying the novelty of using his new snowblower, and cleared us out, to which I thanked him profusely.  I headed out to work to find three more catering deliveries on the agenda for the day, as well as the usual stuff.  After getting through what was for the most part a regular morning, including driving Janice to work  and keeping Lexy with me for the day because school was cancelled for the second day in a row, I came back during lunchbreak to widen our driveway a bit and make a clearer walking path to the mailbox.  Then after that, I took it upon myself to make a path to the mailbox from the road to the steps of our next door neighbours, Janice's parents, especially where they're older folks.  In the afternoon, I had my work cut out for me at BJ's.  I had this really big order for City Hall that had punch, sandwiches, crackers, fruit, chicken wings and meatballs, and I had to get this delivered and set up after I did the hospital, with Alexandra with me.  She actually helped me quite a bit, opening doors for me as I went along with my hands full.  I got done with BJ's stuff handy to four o'clock, and Alexandra had a late afternoon TKD class to get to.  I brought her there,and then I went to PreLam to get five things taken care of around the city, followed by bringing stuff back there after it was finished.  I had equipment to pick up too, and had to bring it back to the sub shop.  Then I got Alexandra from TKD and then went to pick up Janice as work, and by this time I'd decided I wasn't going to take part in class for the evening.  Janice decided not to either.  We had our roasted root vegetables supper, and then headed out shortly after that to do some grocery shopping, replenishing the fresh vegetables that we'd been eating lately.  We returned home, and took it easy for the most part, and as Alexandra is now in bed and it's past midnight, I'm going to sign off.  Not before I mention that there's another storm on the way, where they're calling for another 30 centimeters of snow.  Halifax has actually laid down a curfew on their residents tonight, where if anyone is caught driving or walking the streets could be up for a thousand dollar fine.  Sounds crazy to me.  They're desperate to get things cleared up down there.  But---that's going to be it for me tonight.  Let's see what the next volley from Old Man Winter will be like.
 
Saturday, February 21, 2004.............. This morning I got up a few times from a noisy neighbour using a snowblower off and on, which pretty much continued throughout the day.  Some people's kids, I tell you.  Janice brought Alexandra to TKD demo class this morning, where she is beginning to learn to use nunchuks, and after that we went to the Farmer's Market to get this week's supply of treats.  This will be the last week for a while that I get goodies from the Market, because as of Ash Wednesday, I'm cutting out the hard junk food for Lent.  That being, pop, chips, bars, pastries, sweets, that sort of thing.  It'll serve as part of my act of being a Catholic as well as clean my body out from all the garbage that I've been eating the last long while.  As far as I know, Janice is going along with the same thing.  With Alexandra, we'll ask her to give something up, but giving up sweets is something that she couldn't really do at this point, I don't think.  Anyway, Janice had to work noon to five today, so I brought Alexandra to the dollar store for her little hunt for cheap treasures after I gave her a $6 allowance, then we went to Famous Players Theatres to find out what the scoop is on "The Passion of the Christ" movie.  It is indeed starting on Wednesday there, but tickets aren't available until the day of the show, so I'm going to do my best to get them.  We've been looking forward to seeing this movie since it was announced Mel Gibson was making a movie about Jesus in a dead language without subtitles nearly a year ago.  Of course, there have since been subtitles added to the idea of the movie.  After that I went to get my Entertainment Weekly magazine to read tonight, then came home to do more shoveling, to widen and deepen the driveway some.  It seems like everyone around me has a friggin' snowblower except me.  Alexandra played in the snow for a lot of the afternoon while I browsed the web a little, then I picked up Janice again and we came home and had homemade fries and fried balony, something that I used to have as a kid back on Emmerson Street quite often.  I still enjoy it, and so did Alexandra and Janice.  The three of us watched "Ice Age" which I now have on tape after that.  I really like that movie.  I think I've seen it six or seven times now and still get a kick out of it.  It's kind of an animated, prehistoric, "Three Men and a Baby", kinda sorta.  Alexandra went to bed not long after that, then Janice and me made an attempt to watch "Chicago" on The Movie Network.  We made it through about half an hour, and had to give it the gong.  Geez, the whole show-tunes with trumpets and horns and cabaret singing thing just does NOT fly with me.  Or Janice evidently.  I guess I thought I could get to enjoy watching a movie with sexy women in fishnets dancing around, but I hadn't accounted for how much I hate that music.  We switched the channel to another movie, "House of 1,000 Corpses", and we survived about five minutes of that.  I just can't tolerate stupidity in movies like that when it's unintentional.  We eventually settled on "Castaway" playing on ABC, meaning there were commercials, meaning we couldn't really get more than the gist of it.  That brings me to now.  We're waiting for a supposed snowstorm that was initially supposed to bring us up to 30 more centimetres of snow, and it was supposed to have started by now, but nothing yet.  We won't be too sad if it passes us by.  That's all the folks in Halifax need is another dumping of snow on top of what they have down there already.  Time to cut out.........
 
Sunday, February 22, 2004............ A quiet day has just buzzed by as I sit here at my desk to type out my summary.  It's been a bit dull today, really.  I suppose I could do more with my time, but today I chose to finish reading "Stupid White Men", cruise the internet looking for amusing information on whatever popped up on the screen, and hang out with my little girl.  Actually, she took to roaming the neighbourhood outside in the snow with her snowsuit with her cousin next door, so she got lots of fresh air.  It was a good day to do it.  I don't think the Co-op feed plant runs on Sunday, so we don't have the stench of fresh cooked pet food in the air to choke up your every breath, which is basically the case every time we come out of the ACTA building from our TKD class.  Nothing like the taste of Tender Vittles in the air as you come out of a building all sweaty looking for a fresh gasp.  I've given thought to making a complaint about the air quality in our neighbourhood, especially where even closer to the Co-op feed plant, zoning was approved recently to build a family-oriented neighbourhood right next door, where the old CN Shops Yards used to exist before the mighty then-Prime Minister Mulroney came to town with his wife, who took a glancing swipe from a placard from an outraged demonstrator protesting the jobless situation in our region.  There's no love lost between Monctonians and the Mulroneys.  After that episode, Moncton went into the crapper until then-Premier Frank McKenna brought jobs back to us (although not the best jobs, but still, they were jobs) and Mulroney was booted out of office for good.  Now we just have to endure his smug son Ben on "Canadian Idol".  But hey, this is for another page, isn't it?  This morning, we actually got to go to church again, for the second week in a row.  Father McKee again did mass, and today he preached to us all to be more forgiving and to love our enemies.  Hate begets hate, after all.  It's true, but tough.  But not impossible.  Alexandra had catechism class after that, and while that went on, Janice and me went to Tim Horton's on King Street until I had to drive her to work for one o'clock.  While there, Janice had her large tea with milk and a cookie she brought from home, and I decided on a hot chocolate and a Boston Creme donut, one of my favorites.  The hot chocolate I enjoyed.  Recently, though, I'd stopped buying the Timbits because they stopped making my favorite ones, the sour cream glazed variety.  I did buy them afterwards.  But they seemed substandard to me.  They weren't quite right.  A couple of years ago, I'd heard that the Tim Horton's donut chain was bought by an American outfit, effectively castrating Tim's of its Canadianness, as far as I was concerned at least.  The coffee, I hear, stayed the same, but the donuts just SUCK OUT LOUD now.  That donut that I had this morning reeked of freezer burn.  It almost tasted like a donut you'd get from a bakery in the hospital or something.  And the size had to be about 20% smaller than what it used to be.  All of the donuts from Tim's are this way now, shipped frozen and not baked fresh anymore, and all of them are conformed to a certain size to meet the criteria set out by the head brass at Tim Horton Towers or wherever and whatever their head office is.  The apple fritters are repulsive.  The size of the donuts even more so.  But that's enough about that.  When evening came, I cooked home made tacos for us for supper, and then I passed out on the couch and woke up just in time to put Alexandra to bed.  Then Janice and me got ready to watch "Bowling For Columbine" on The Movie Network again, followed by "Ebert & Roper at the Movies", as they offered their review of "The Passion of the Christ", the first to be made officially public.  It's a glowing, insightful review and they couldn't have said anything better about it than what they did.  In fact, they said a lot about this movie that needs to be heard, explaining why they feel that it's clearly not anti-Semitic.  I don't believe the review is posted at their official site just yet, but keep checking at this link, and it may be there by the time you've read this......... As the snow continues to not fall, we head off to bed.
 
Monday, February 23, 2004.......... This morning I was due at the dentist's office again for my second of two visits, but I balked at it.  Not because I was chicken--because after I went through what I did last week, I don't think it can get worse than that.  It's because it's still fairly sensitive to chew on the side that I had work done on last week, and if I got the other side done this morning, that would make it tough to eat period.  And with Fat Tuesday coming tomorrow, I want to enjoy what I have, so I put my appointment off till next Tuesday.  Work today was pretty striaghtforward, with a few catering deliveries and an average day for PreLam, where Shelly, Donnie's wife (Don owns PreLam and hired me when he had BJ's Subs), is leaving her position there at the end of the month.  Her and I have gotten along quite well especially in the last couple of years talking about pretty much anything that comes to mind.  It'll be different without her around.  She's being replaced by quite a hottie, and really, Shelly's a tough act to follow in the looks department too.  I brought Janice to work at eleven this morning, and picked up Alexandra at school and brought her to her usual afternoon TKD class.  When I picked up Janice after her work was done, she pretty much went right to ACTA where she had an appointment with John Thorely and his lovely lady Rachel, in a private women's self defense lesson.  She learned quite a bit, which she aims to pass on to pretty much any female friend that wants to know it.  Whenever we hook up with Melissa again (more on her in a few seconds), I think it's imperative that she learn what Janice has to show her.  The evening TKD class was a great one, with Mr. Thorely teaching tonight, and he remarked actually at the end of class how well everyone was progressing, and he singled out Sara and myself especially at how well we've been doing lately.  I felt a fire lit under me after I'd been to the tournament we went to recently, and I want to get more involved in the future, so I've upped my game a fair bit.  My kicks are getting a lot harder and higher and my flexibility is improving.  Which will also be good for my 'frontman' aspirations in the next band I'm in, which is my next topic.  I talked to Pete tonight after Janice, Sara, Lex and me came home, and we discussed when the four of us are going to get together to see what will happen chemistry-wise with a band situation.  Those four are Pete, myself, Pete's nephew and a friend of his.  We'll be getting together, all four of us anyway, probably on the weekend and let whatever will happen take shape.  You won't hear me talk about it in person unless you ask me, that's for sure.  I know all too well the snarkiness and ridicule that can come of any discussion about a band situation.  Namely the old "oh, so you want to be a star!" attitude.  The chances of becoming any kind of "star" are so miniscule that it doesn't even warrant a passing thought.  We plan on having fun with what we're going to do and hoping for the best results.  I've faced ignorance and ridicule from family members, no support whatsoever actually except maybe from my brother Greg who's always supported me in that way, and some friends who attempt discussion about it with a shit-eating grin.  But there are plenty of friends, too, who I know would be supportive.  Anyway, we'll see if it gets off the ground first.  I downloaded a couple of songs from Puretracks.com, sampled the small library I've accumulated from said site, and we watched RAW and brought the lovely and shrinking Sara home (down 25 lbs and counting.....WAY TO GO SARA!!!).......Now a few words about our friend Melissa.  I finally heard from her this morning, and the news was a mixture of good and bad, in the same topic.  She had what I'll label a 'domestic incident' which left her at the Crossroads for Women shelter with her two kids, as she endures yet another strike of very bad luck in her life.  I hadn't heard from her in so long mostly because of her lack of having a phone at the place that she'd last lived at.  Apparently a fair bit has happened since then.  She's looking to move into another apartment building at the end of the month, which is pretty much when she and us will get back on track relationship-wise.  If you're faithful, say a prayer for the girl.  She needs a break.......  I began reading "Fast Food Nation", and you'll likely hear me talking about that here from time to time.  Already I've read things that I've already come to the conclusion of before I bought the book, namely how fast food places exploit children to sell their junk food and get them hooked for future generations.  I expect an eye opening read........ That's it for now.  I haven't said it in a long time, but, if you're reading this, please know how much I appreciate your attention to my site, and this page in particular which shares with you the more intimate details in my daily happenings.  I read it back to myself and find it a bit dull, but others will tell me how entertaining a read it is, and that's the nicest thing to know!  Thank you for coming here and giving my humble site a try.
 
Tuesday, February 24, 2004........... Not a whole lot to report on the job front today, except that I'd forgotten all about an order to be delivered at 5:00pm after getting sidetracked by PreLam stuff.  Carla was very forgiving about it at least.  I got to finally see Melissa today, giving her a lift from her parents' place to the Crossroads home that she's staying at this month with her little ones.  I had Alexandra with me when I picked her and her kids up, and they were very happy to see us.  It was a mixed feeling.  I was so happy to see all of them, but at the same time, I know what they've been through in the last couple of weeks, and I felt this wave of sympathy for them, so it was a melancholic kind of happy feeling.  We will all be in touch much more often now, though, hopefully.  I bought chicken wings in my travels for us to have tonight, as we're going to pig out on those and whatever else we can't have once Ash Wednesday is upon us, which is less than 12 minutes away from when I type this.  We had lots of Diet Pepsi Twist, I had the rest of the stuff that I'd bought at the Farmer's Market, a couple of chocolate bars, homemade french fries, basically we just pigged out one last time for at least fourty days.  Sara was with us too, but she only had a few wings where I think she's actually careful with what she eats these days.  We all went to TKD class tonight, showing up slightly early, where I finally met up with Tina and she got to coach me along on my form and movements and self defence, all aspects of my next testing which happens Thursday night.  Tina is a natural at teaching.  There's something about her way of instruction, not unlike Chris Lessard, that sticks to your mind and engrains itself more deeply into the psyche, making for easier playback in your conciousness when it comes to repeating what you've been shown.  Although Tina stands at just over five feet tall, I find her somewhat intimidating in presence, because she's so good at what she does (she's testing for her Black Belt in the spring).  But she has a genuine desire of helping someone improve their game.  Tonight, her boyfriend/what-we-all-believe-to-be-future-husband Master Lessard taught class, and it was a sparring night where we all got to don body pads.  I wound up with Mr. Heavy Bag for a partner, where there was an odd number of students.  And let me tell you, I kicked the crap out of Mr. Heavy Bag.  He didn't stand a chance.  He just seemed to hang around and wait for me to kick him silly.  No competition at all!  Anyway, it was a good, sweaty class.  On the way home Janice tried to tell me that Tina had said the head instructors all remarked how well I've come along in the last couple of weeks.  Janice tends to spread it on thick a bit sometimes, so I'll garnish the belief of this claim with a dash of skepticism.  I hope I have my techniques down well enough, though, to earn my Blue Stripe on Thursday night....... After we had our wings and stuff tonight, I scooted right out to Famous Players Cinemas to once again attempt to get tickets to "The Passion of the Christ" which starts tomorrow night.  Though once again I was stonewalled, with the revelation that tickets go on sale to the general public tomorrow at noon (I am THERE), I was told that church groups were able to buy large blocks of tickets in advance.  This irritated me a bit, but as long as I get to see this show, which I'd been following the making of since I'd learned about it on Ain't It Cool News nearly a year ago, I'll be happy.  Tomorrow, though.  We've waited long enough!  On the way home, it occurred to me--after hearing on the news about small Jewish groups protesting the showing of the movie at some of the theatres it was playing at--that as long as the Christians who go to see the movie and encounter these kinds of protests, as long as they don't fire back insults or counter-protestations, and silently continue about their own business in their beliefs, that it's happening all over again.  Isn't it?  Christ and His followers were condemned by the Jews in His final days right up to His crucifixion.  Shouted at, spat on, cursed, insulted, you name it.  It would appear that it's happening again with this movie.  It's unsettling in its own way, and at the same time, perhaps a test of Christians and our resolve to carry out Christ's will.  That being in this case to turn the other cheek.  I know in the next few days, as "TPOTC" hits theatres, things will indeed be interesting, and maybe be a barometer in measuring exactly what Christians and Jews think of each other.  By the time I make my next posting, hopefully I'll be able to say what it is that I personally thought of the movie........ Ash Wednesday is officially here. 
 
Wednesday, February 25, 2004............. The morning for work turned out to be a fairly busy one, and I needed to drive Janice to work at around ten, so there was no shortage of things to get done between BJ's and PreLam, with work that I needed to finish off from the day before.  Plus, I needed to get everything done in time so I could get to Famous Players Theatres for noon to get tickets for "The Passion of the Christ" for tonight's showing.  I did make it in good time, to meet a lineup of about thirty people outside the theatre waiting for the doors to open.  When they did, I was able to bypass most of them to get to the automated service and get tickets charged to credit card, thus cutting out the waiting.  A 7:00 pm showing was already sold out, and others were going quite quickly, so I was fortunate to get tickets, I think.  I came home and worked on the website a bit after that, re-writing a review for "Master and Commander", with reviews for the other shows I've seen recently to be added in the coming days.  I got through the afternoon, driving Alexandra to TKD class and picking up Janice, and then we all wound up home after that.  Today I practiced fasting in recognition of Ash Wednesday, not eating until 5:30, when I had an orange and a fried egg sandwich.  Janice did the same, having a few grapes earlier in the day and then sharing Kraft Dinner with Alexandra around suppertime.  Meat was off the menu today, again, in recognition of Ash Wednesday.  Alexandra went next door to her grandparents for a couple of hours tonight, when Janice and me took to the theatre to see the movie.  If the parking lot was any indication, it was a very, very busy day at Famous Players.  We had to park far away from the building so we could get in, and we got there around a half hour early, when the theatre we were due to see the show in was packing in big time already.  Once it got underway, the entire audience was transfixed on the atmosphere presented onscreen.  It unfolded into a gruesome telling of the crucifixion of Jesus, as everyone knows, but what's not talked about near as much is how brutal the Roman soldiers are in this story.  The same with the relationship between Jesus and his mother, something that I've never felt in the past with other movies about the passion of Jesus.  To make a long story short, because I'd rather express myself soon at the Heads Up page, we exited the theatre in silence and reflection on what we'd just witnessed, and we couldn't understand for the life of us how some people are calling it anti-Semitic.  Maybe those people got mixed up about who the Romans and the Jews were?  I don't know.  The Jews ordered Christ to be put to death, this much is true, but it was the Romans who carried out the execution with such sadism and brutality.  Janice and me both agree that this is a film that everyone must judge for themselves and not to let anyone's minds be made up from reviewers who wave the anti-Semitic flag.  I dare say that these reviewers are doing this to bring attention to themselves more than anything else.  Perhaps they should see the movie first instead of read others' reports.  We got home and picked up Alexandra next door, came home and munched a little bit on toast or whatever we were allowed to nibble on, and now the night has come to a close.